Connect with us

Hi, what are you looking for?

Life

Posting Your Children’s Lives Online—What Happens When Parents Disagree?

We’ve all heard stories about the use of social media gone wrong – a politician tweets something inappropriate, an embarrassing photo of a celebrity goes viral, a business person gets caught in a compromising situation.  Social media has changed the way we communicate; sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse.  Concerns around privacy and retention of data are something we should all be thinking about if we engage with social media platforms.

 

Social media is playing an ever increasing role in family law disputes as litigants use information obtained from social media to support their claims.  More generally, parents may disagree about what information is shared about their children on social media, which can lead to disputes.  If you are involved in a family law matter, here are some social media tips to consider:

 

Discuss What Content is Acceptable to be Shared 

 

Many parents’ Instagram and Facebook feeds are full of pictures and videos of their children.  Parents don’t always agree, however, about how much of their children’s lives should be shared online.  Discuss with your former spouse what information can be shared online as well as appropriate privacy settings for your accounts.  If both parents are on the same page, there is less likely to be a dispute in the future.

 

Be Aware of Who Your Followers Are

 

It’s not uncommon for parents to be “friends” with their children’s friends on Facebook or for their children’s friends to follow their Instagram or Twitter accounts.  Be mindful of who is following you and what information you are putting out there.  While you might be cautious about not sharing information about your separation directly with your children, if you are posting about it on social media, there’s a good chance it will get back to your children.  Subtle comments without naming names are off limits too – kids can read between the lines.

Remember that Social Media Posts Can Be Used As Evidence

 

Requests to obtain documentation regarding an individual’s social media posts are becoming more common as our use of social media permeates our day-to-day life.  While a person’s social media profile may be set to private, that doesn’t mean that they won’t be ordered to provide that information in the course of litigation.  Furthermore, posts cannot simply be deleted if there is a concern about the content – that may be considered spoiling evidence.  Ultimately, if you wouldn’t want a judge or the other parent to see it, don’t post it on social media.

 

Think Twice Before Posting

 

I always advise my clients to think twice about hitting send on that email that they’ve written to their spouse in a moment of anger and frustration.  The same rules apply to social media.  Take a moment to think about what you are posting and what the ramifications might be.  Never post out of anger.  If you have doubts about whether the post is appropriate, it’s probably not.  If you need to air out your feelings of frustration, find a trusted friend and discuss the issue in private.  Although it might feel good in the moment, there’s nothing to be gained by putting private information out there for the world (or your 500 “friends”) to see but there may be a whole lot to lose.

 

Advertisement. Scroll to continue reading.

 

 

Kathleen Wright practices in family law at Mann Lawyers LLP. Mann Lawyers LLP is a full service law firm operating in Ottawa’s Hintonburg area. This article is not intended to provide legal advice. Should you require legal advice, please contact Mann Lawyers LLP at 613.722.1500 or visit mannlawyers.com. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Click to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Advertisement Village Green Dental Care
Advertisement canadianlithographs
Advertisement

You May Also Like

Entertainment

Francesca Farago, also known as “Frankie,” became a hit sensation after the airing of Netflix’s reality show Too Hot To Handle.

Life

Ontario is no stranger to dock spiders who, despite their name, are found all over cottage country and not just on docks. Here are...

Entertainment feature

There has been a war raging on for decades. It has destroyed friendships, turned loved ones against one another and, mildly inconvenienced restaurant patrons....

Life

While the 2020 edition of the CHEO Dream of a Lifetime Lottery won’t offer participants a tour of the actual Mintro Dream Home, the...

Advertisement Sysco